So I recently have been trying to get charges off of my credit card that were for a free sample of a health product that I got off the internet. (not so free is it) I am realizing how stupid that is now that I have to pay 140 bucks because I didn’t read the fine print. It is really frustrating to have to deal with this but it is making me reflect on a few things.
So the reason that I tried to get this health product in the first place was because I was and am not satisfied with the current shape my body is in, like a billion other people in are. But really I am healthy, I don’t really have any fat on my body but I simply want to look more muscular. But why? really for no reason at all except the vain satisfaction of looking good. Its not like I don’t feel good. This leads me to rant a little on how our culture through the media tells us that we have to look a certain way or else we are not happy or were not good enough. We spend ridiculous amounts of money on trying to look the way our culture tells us we should. It seems as though we are never happy. Not with the money we make, not with the house we live in, not with the car we drive and not with the body we walk around in. We really need to open our eyes and see how much trash the media and our culture is feeding us.
We need to realize that all this silly things that we are searching for really don’t make us happy. No material possession and not big bulging biceps. So then how do we become happy? how do we become content? Not to say we should not be in shape or in good health because I am a big advocate for healthy living and being fit, but some of us are doing it just to look good or to be able to flaunt our six pact and pecs to the world. So how do we become happy? What will make you happy?
Wow…getting ripped off by some stupid internet bit has driven me to figure out why the world isn’t happy. Or maybe the question is why are we so selfish?
Surely all this must be rapped up in our identity and who we think we are and what we think we need. So what do we need? What is our identity?
I believe all our identities are wrapped up in the creator and sustainer of the world. That it has something to do with God. I think that we were created for relationship and that there is a relationship in God himself and he holds all things together. Like it says in Acts “In him we live and move and have our being”. So I think that our identity is as it says in the first chapter of Ephesians that we are all predestined to be adopted as sons and daughters of this God. This God that is a relationship within himself and with humanity (Father, Son and Spirit) and this is the relationship that gives life to all things. Thus we are created to be in relationship with the life giving God that holds all things together. In this relationship we get meaning, happiness, joy….fullness of life…nothing lacking.
to cut this short because its getting lengthy my point is that when we look over ourselves and our own identity and the things that make us happy or give us meaning we must always start and finish with our relationship with the Father, Son and Spirit. When we are centred there then we become content….we receive the love that we all need. Then we are able to dodge these silly selfish things that build up in ourselves.
So the answer to my own question perhaps is that I need to re-evaluate my own relationship with God and see where I am allowing lies like I need to have bulging muscles in order to be happy effect my life…then perhaps I will be more happy and have more money because I won’t waste money on scams off the internet. BRUTAL….
what aren’t you happy about?




